Do you think I should give it a third date?
My Man About Town is a catch in a million ways—he’s warm,
sweet, excited to learn knots, excellent with logistics and making me feel
cared for. I’ve been to his house and I like both his wife and his girlfriend.
After our hike last
night, he sent me a Google Earth map of the route! Romantic, right?
But I just feel like the chemistry is off. I love talking to
him but I just don’t feel quite right about kissing him.
If this were a romantic comedy, this would be a part where I
realize that I’ve moved past the bad boys and I’m ready for some genuine
affection, and choose the Nice Guy. And I really want to do that, but it just
feels like we’re more a friend match than anything else. I DO want to be
treated well, but a spark is important, too.
Please advise?