Dear (Executive Director),
I have shared a deep concern with the (LGBT Community Center Hosting The Scary Party) staff
via email a couple of times and my complaint has been ignored. Just a heads-up
that what you are about to read may be triggering, and for that, I’m sorry.
I am writing to you under my blog name to minimize outing
other partners I’ve written about on my blog.
Since finding out that (LGBT Community Center) is now hosting (The Scary Party's) monthly parties, I have been suffering flashbacks to traumatic events
that happened to me at the hands of their leadership, as well as feeling that I
no longer have safe access to (LGBT Community Center) for counselling and other events.
At an (Scary Party) event in
2013, I experienced numerous consent violations from the head of security at
the time and his friend, who was also on the security staff. In response to my
report, the dungeon's leadership gaslighted me, blamed me for what happened,
and the entire (Scary Party) community gang-trolled me on FetLife.
I have considered (LGBT Community Center) to be a wonderful resource in the past, but until this situation is
corrected, I will no longer feel safe using your services, and I don't think
any woman/femme/submissive should.
Here are detailed blog
posts on both the original incident and the FetLife nightmare. In the future, I
hope you will consider safety and consent in your booking decisions.
Best,
"Pretty
Ribbons"