Saturday, April 14, 2012
Advice, Please: Care Beyond Aftercare?
These reactions might occur well outside the scene; after the adrenaline wears off, the reality of what happened may sink in.
In a friendship or dating situation with a dom, I feel like I should be able to approach him with these reactions or concerns, but a few times I've tried it and been met with annoyance.
In a vanilla situation, I'd expect the guy to be able to talk about what we experienced together. Is it different for BDSM? Is this something I need to negotiate for explicitly?