You know I heart sexperts, and Bo Blaze is becoming a favorite. The other day I posed this beginner-submissive question to him on the Twitter:
How do I know when I am being seen as a person, not just as a collection of fetishes?
And he wrote back:
"Tricky, cause yr Dom might C U differently than they let on. Look inside & assess the connection between U. Is it there?"
I like that answer because it made me realize that somewhere, deep down, I might actually know what I'm doing. I can see myself referring back to that tweet often. Thanks!